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Find an inclusive sex and relationship therapist
A hand-picked directory of COSRT-registered psychosexual and relationship therapists who are LGBTQ+, trans, neurodivergent, disability and kink-affirming. Every therapist offers low-cost or sliding-scale sessions, online or in person across the UK and Ireland.
Find an inclusive sex and relationship therapist
A hand-picked directory of COSRT-registered psychosexual and relationship therapists who are LGBTQ+, trans, neurodivergent, disability and kink-affirming. Every therapist offers low-cost or sliding-scale sessions, online or in person across the UK and Ireland.
Culturally in-tune
Every therapist has in-depth training in gender, sexuality and relationship diversity, and works across cultures, races, identities and lived experiences.
Licensed & Vetted
Legally anyone can call themselves a therapist. Everyone here is registered with COSRT (recognised by the NHS) or the equivalent body in their country.
Accessible AF
All therapists listed here offer sliding-scale or low-cost sessions, making therapy more accessible for people on lower incomes - because support shouldn’t be a luxury.
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What makes a sex therapist inclusive?
An inclusive therapist won't make you explain or justify who you are. They're trained in gender, sexuality and relationship diversity (GSRD), so your identity, relationship style, body and brain are treated as the starting point, not the problem.
That means no assumptions about who you're sleeping with, how many people you love, what "normal" sex looks like, or whether your disability or neurodivergence is "the issue". It also means a therapist who keeps learning about race, culture and power, and understands how they shape sex and relationships.
FAQs
The most common Cliterally community questions, answered.
What is psychosexual and relationship therapy?
A talking therapy for anything affecting your sex life, intimacy or relationships, from desire differences and sexual pain to exploring your sexuality or gender. There's no physical contact or examination, just conversation. Read the full guide.
How do I find an LGBTQ+ friendly sex therapist?
Look for someone registered with a professional body like COSRT who also has specific GSRD training. Every therapist in this directory has both, so you can skip the awkward vetting.
How do I know my therapist is regulated?
In the UK, anyone can call themselves a therapist. Check they're on the COSRT register (or the equivalent in their country). We check this before anyone is listed. How to know if your therapist is legit.
What can I expect from my first session?
It's mostly about getting to know each other. You'll talk about what's brought you there and what you'd like to change, and you only share what you're comfortable with.
Can I have sex therapy online?
Yes. Most therapists here work online, so you can find someone who gets you, wherever you live.
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DISCLAIMER: This website is for 18+ and does not provide medical advice. Read more here.
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