About Ray

Dr. Ray O’Neill is an Assistant Professor of Psychotherapy in DCU’s School of Nursing, Psychotherapy, and Community Health, and a psychotherapist in private practice who works primarily—though not exclusively—with the LGBTQ+ community.

One of Ireland’s few male “Agony Aunts,” he is a regular contributor to the Irish media, particularly The Ray Darcy Show and was co-host of RTÉ’s Then Comes Marriage. Ray frequently engages with the media to explore themes of love, relationships, and desire in the twenty-first century.

His current research examines how contemporary technologies shape desire, as well as how trauma is transmitted both individually and collectively across generations, with a particular focus on the legacy of the Irish Famine. His clinical approach is person centred and relationally focused on both therapist and client listening to what is shared and with-nessed.

Qualifications

MA in Sexual Dissidence and Cultural Change, MPhil in Gender and Women Studies, Grad Dip in Psychoanalytic Studies, MSc in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy, CICS Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy, PhD in Sexuality Studies

Therapy approaches

Psychodynamic, Relational, Pluralistic

Client focus

Adults, LGBTQ+

Specialties

Sexual Trauma, Childhood Sexual Abuse

What I can help with

  • Affairs/Infidelity
  • Communication Problems
  • Desire Discrepancies
  • Desire Problems
  • Exploring Sexuality
  • Fear of Intimacy
  • Pornography-Related Concerns
  • Problematic Sexual Behaviours
  • Reduced/High Desire Concerns
  • Sexual Trauma