About Alex

I’m Alex, a sex and relationship therapist who specialises in helping people with sexual difficulties, or those who are new to kink or BDSM find confidence, clarity, and self-acceptance.

If you’re curious, nervous, or worried you’ll “get it wrong,” don’t stress – this is a space where nothing you say will shock me. I’m calm, kink-aware, and here to help you explore who you are without shame, pressure, or judgment.

Whether you’re figuring out your desires, preparing for your first munch, or learning to be kinder to yourself, I’ll walk with you every step of the way.

Qualifications

Dip Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy (COSRT), Registered member of Social Work England, Certificate in Counselling Skills and Practice (CICS), MA Social Work, University of York, 2016, BA Hons Children, Young People and Families with Education Studies, York St John University, 2014

Therapy approaches

Integrative, Pluralistic

Client focus

Adults, Couples, BDSM Community

What I can help with

  • Affairs/Infidelity
  • Body Image Concerns
  • Communication Problems
  • Compulsive Sexual Behaviour ('Addiction')
  • Delayed Ejaculation
  • Desire Discrepancies
  • Desire Problems
  • Exploring Gender Identity
  • Exploring Sexuality
  • Fear of Intimacy
  • Orgasm Problems
  • Polyamory / Multi-Partnered Relationship Support
  • Pornography-Related Concerns
  • Premature Ejaculation
  • Problematic Sexual Behaviours
  • Reduced/High Desire Concerns
  • Sex & Relationships with Disability
  • Sex & Relationships with Neurodivergence
  • Sexual Pain
  • Sexual Trauma
  • Unreliable Erections
  • Vaginismus