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The Home of Sex Positivity

The sex & relationship education you needed growing up and more – without the myths, shame or censorship. Adult pleasure education you can trust.

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Inclusive Pleasure Education and Sexual Wellbeing for Adults (with a side of silly)

Welcome to Cliterally The Best, a sex-positive education and sexual wellbeing platform created to make learning about sex, relationships, and pleasure feel a lot less awkward and a lot more human.

We exist because sexual health education has long been stuck in extremes. Either overly clinical, confusing, and inaccessible, or wrapped in shame, silence, and outdated messaging that leaves people feeling unsure where to turn. We think there is a better way.

Cliterally The Best offers judgement-free, inclusive, and easy to understand sex education that supports real life experiences. This includes sexual health, consent, relationships, communication, desire, intimacy, and pleasure. Whether you are exploring your sexuality for the first time or you already feel confident but want to understand things more deeply, this is a space for learning without embarrassment.

Our content is rooted in psychosexual therapy-informed understanding, blended with a creative, illustrated approach that makes complex topics feel more approachable. We focus on helping you build confidence, improve communication in relationships, understand your body, and feel more connected to your sexual wellbeing.

Alongside educational blog content, we offer practical guidance on common sexual concerns, relationship dynamics, emotional intimacy, and pleasure-focused wellbeing. Everything is designed to be supportive, accurate, and relevant to real people navigating real experiences.

This is sexual health education without shame, without judgement, and without the assumption that you should already know everything. Just clear, inclusive, honest information designed to meet you where you are.

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Brand FAQs

Despite the colourful cartoons, Cliterally The Best was created for adults to access the sex education they never received at school and to correct the myths they picked up down the pub.

That said, much of this content can be useful for non-adults, and we’re happy for parents and guardians to share chosen resources in an age-appropriate way.

However, like the rest of the internet, we cannot be responsible for children accessing the site. That responsibility lies with the parents or guardians. CTB has never delivered lessons in schools, despite politicians misrepresenting our content to push harmful narratives.

All material is fact-checked and referenced accordingly. The guest writers for the sex positive guides are always vetted and have the relevant experience and/or credible qualifications in this field. 

That being said, we are human (not AI) so if you do spot an error, please email evie@cliterallythebest.com – we welcome feedback!

Good question! I am super conscious of Sex Positivity becoming the next toxic positivity movement.

Where you are told you should be loving your body all the time or you should be constantly working on your self-care.

When really, it can be hard sometimes to even accept your body let alone love it + some days it can be hard to shower or want to have sex – and this is okay too!

Sex positivity isn’t about being this super sexual being (although if that’s you that’s cool too!), it’s about being open to learning and understanding other yours and other people’s experiences surrounding sexuality without judgement – this doesn’t need to involve anything physical, at all.

I want you to know that although I bang on about sex online A LOT, it doesn’t mean you SHOULD be doing these things and if you don’t that you’re not ‘liberated’ – it’s that, if you do enjoy sex, that’s ok and you are deserving of these experiences regardless of who you are!💜

Read more here.

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Amazing! I’m always looking to work with like-minded brands. Please email me with what you had in mind and we can chat!

I do indeed! You can find shipping prices here. Sadly since brexit, shipping prices have shot up – but i’m constantly on the look out for cheaper suppliers to send you your sex positive goodies.

I ship directly from my home currently & all orders are dispatched within 3 working days with tracking numbers.

Evie Plumb (she/her) who is the founder and sole team member of CTB illustrates all the images and diagrams found on the site and the instagram.

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Why Cliterally?

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Inclusive & Accessible

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Kink & Sex Worker Positive

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Therapist-Informed

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