About Bima

My name is Bima Loxley (they/them) and I am a white, trans nonbinary, AuDHD sex & relationship therapist and educator who works with individuals, people in all forms of relationships (couples, polycules, friends, colleagues), groups and families.

My passion lies in GSRD (gender, sexuality & relationship diversity). I recognise the individuality, humanity and intersectionality in everyone, thus my approach is: no one size fits all. This means my therapy is contemporary, humanistic and decolonised; my goal is to work collaboratively with you, so you maintain your autonomy and feel empowered in and out of sessions. I are here to offer you the tools you need to live your life your way, so that one day you don’t need therapy anymore.

Please see my website and Instagram for more information on who I am, how I work and what I offer.

Qualifications

MA in Contemporary Relationship Studies - Relationship & Family Therapy, PgDip in Clinical Sexology - Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy, Tim Foskett’s Intermediate Course in Group Facilitation, Level 4 Foundation Certificate in integrative Counselling & Psychotherapy

Therapy approaches

Pluralistic, humanistic, systemic, psychosexual, relational, somatic, mindfulness-based

Client focus

Adults, individuals, couples, multiple partners, friends, family, colleagues, groups. LGBTQIA+, Kinksters, Sex Workers

What I can help with

  • Affairs/Infidelity
  • Delayed Ejaculation
  • Desire Discrepancies
  • Desire Problems
  • Exploring Gender Identity
  • Exploring Sexuality
  • Fear of Intimacy
  • Gynae Issues (Endo, Adeno, PCOS etc)
  • Menopause Issues
  • Orgasm Problems
  • Polyamory / Multi-Partnered Relationship Support
  • Premature Ejaculation
  • Reduced/High Desire Concerns
  • Sex & Relationships with Disability
  • Sex & Relationships with Neurodivergence
  • Sexual Pain
  • Unreliable Erections
  • Vaginismus