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Sex positivity is the idea that we should embrace and celebrate consensual sexual expression and exploration without shame or stigma. It’s all about embracing the idea that sexuality is a natural and healthy part of being human. In this article, we’ll explore what sex positivity is and why it’s important.
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Sex positivity is at the heart of everything we do here: the idea that consensual sexual expression deserves celebration, not shame. This is your hub for open, honest discussions on sexuality, identity and empowerment, exploring what it actually means to be sex positive (and just as importantly, what it doesn't).
Whether you're new to the concept or living it daily, you'll find articles here on challenging shame, embracing diverse identities and desires, and building a genuinely judgement-free relationship with your own sexuality.
Whether you're new to the concept or living it daily, you'll find articles here on challenging shame, embracing diverse identities and desires, and building a genuinely judgement-free relationship with your own sexuality.
All Sex Positive Articles
The Ultimate Sex Positive Gift Guide (For Every Budget)
Stuck on what to get someone? This sex positive gift guide covers everything from £3 stickers to wall prints to tees that actually say something. Gifts with meaning, for every budget.
When Intimacy Becomes a Product: AI, Sex Tech, and the Loss of Human Connection
I was in Berlin, wandering through the bright neon of a sex tech convention, when I found myself…
What is 'Sex Positivity?'
Sex positivity is the idea that we should embrace and celebrate consensual sexual expression and exploration without shame or stigma. It’s all about embracing the idea that sexuality is a natural and healthy part of being human. In this article, we’ll explore what sex positivity is and why it’s important.
Activism
Taking care of yourself when the world is on fire
Feeling overwhelmed by the world? Discover therapist-informed strategies to care for your mind and body, stay grounded, set boundaries, and rest without guilt — even when everything feels heavy.
Sex-Positive Parenting: Raising Confident, Body-Aware Kids Without the Shame
Practical guide to sex-positive parenting from a psychosexual therapist. Learn how to teach consent, body autonomy, and healthy sexuality to children of all ages.
Things YOU Wish You Knew Before You Had Sex
Lots of us weren’t unprepared for our first time, thanks to poor sex ed and just lots of silly myths in our social groups. It can often lead us to have mediocre and not that pleasurable sex for a long time!
Feeling lost at 30? Join the club
just married the love of my life two months ago. I have a thriving business promoting a mission that I truly believe in. I live in an incredible community that makes me happy and fulfilled. And I’m lucky enough to have these things at 31.
A Personal Story about Navigating Sex Positivity and Rejecting Toxic Masculinity by Armando Cabba
If you would’ve asked me 10 years ago what being sex-positive meant or even what toxic masculinity is, I’d probably say “I’m totally sex-positive, bro. I live to fuck” and ask for a high-five while being wrong and proving I was affected by it at the same time.
History
Kellogg’s Cornflakes: the anti-self love cereal
Did you know Kellogg’s cornflakes were created to stop masturbation? Learn the bizarre history behind this anti-sex myth and why masturbation is perfectly healthy.
Being Old Isn't an Excuse for Hate: Embracing Diversity at Every Age
Age is no excuse for discrimination. Learn how to embrace diversity at every age, challenge prejudices, and create a more inclusive society. It’s never too late to unlearn and grow.
Official statement following the recent & report by Tory MP Miriam Cates on UK RSE
cliterallythebest.co.uk has been cited in Miriam’s report as an example of what is being taught in school RSE.
Racial in UK Medicine: Understanding the Statistics
Black and minority ethnic groups face significant health inequalities in the UK, from maternal mortality to cancer diagnosis. Learn the facts and how we can create change with Dr. Sesay.
Sex Positive FAQs
The most common Cliterally community questions, answered.
What does it mean to be sex positive?
It means embracing consensual sexual expression as a natural, healthy part of being human, without judgement of your own or anyone else's choices, preferences or identity.
Do I have to be sexually active to be sex positive?
Not at all. Sex positivity includes people who are abstinent, asexual or simply private about their sex lives. It's about respect, not participation.
Isn't sex positivity just about promoting sex?
No, it's about removing shame and judgement, not pushing anyone towards anything. Choosing not to have sex is just as valid a choice.
How can I become more sex positive myself?
Start by noticing your own judgements (of yourself and others), educating yourself, and practising open, shame-free communication about sex and bodies.
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