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Unmasked Intimacy: Sex, Desire & Communication for Neurodivergent Adults
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Evidence-based sex education course that truly understands neurodivergent people. Explore desire, sensory sex, communication, and identity in this shame-free course for "high-functioning" autistic and ADHD adults and their allies. Created by an AuDHD psychosexual and relationship therapist, it’s self-paced and designed to work with your brain, not against it.
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Overview
Most sex education was not built for neurodivergent people. This course is. Shame-free, evidence-informed psychoeducation covering what actually happens when autism, ADHD and AuDHD meet sex, desire and relationships. Whether you have never dated or have years of experience, this is for you.
What you will learn
Finally, sex ed that gets your brain
Evidence-informed content built specifically for how neurodivergent brains experience intimacy, dating, and relationships, at any level of experience.
Course content
8 modules. Your pace.
Every module has full written content, matching audio recording, a quiz, plus multiple worksheets and templates. No timeline, no pressure.
Your Brain, Not Your Fault
What neurodivergence actually means · Why so many people are diagnosed late · Masking and what it costs in intimate life
Desire, Dopamine and Your Brain
The ADHD brain and dopamine · Inconsistent desire, hyperfocus and RSD · The AuDHD tension: novelty vs predictability
Sensory Sex
What sensory processing differences mean · How they show up in sex and intimacy · Building your sensory profile
Communication, Consent and Connection
Direct communication and consent · Sex menus and asynchronous communication · Navigating dating apps and dating
Identity, Queerness and Neurodivergence
Why so many neurodivergent people are queer, asexual or gender-diverse, and how to build an identity that fits you, not neurotypical expectations.
When Your Nervous System Needs a Pause
Dysregulation, meltdowns and shutdowns · RSD and post-intimate vulnerability · Building nervous system safety
Building a Sex Life That Actually Works for You
Self-knowledge as the foundation · Identity, queerness and neurodivergence · Structures, compatibility and solo sex
For Partners, Allies and People Who Want to Understand
A lesson for those who have taken this course to support the Neurospicy person in their life or therapists with ND clients
Evie (she/her)
Meet Your Educator
I built this course because I could not find it. I am AuDHD, a psychosexual and relationship therapist, and I have spent years creating shame-free sex education for people who felt like the mainstream version was never made for them. This course is the most personal and most necessary thing I have made and I really hope it give you your 'a-ha' moment.
Your Unmasked Intimacy Questions, Answered.
if your question isn't answered here, please don't hesitate to reach out to Evie.
Is this a replacement for therapy?
No. But this is a great intro to understanding how you or your loved one's brain works when it comes to intimacy, sex and relationships. A great first step if therapy isn't affordable for you right now.
What is the Unmasked Intimacy course?
Unmasked Intimacy is a self-paced online sex education course created specifically for neurodivergent adults. It covers desire, sensory intimacy, communication, consent, dating and self-regulation through a shame-free, evidence-informed lens. The course includes 7 core modules, 21 lessons, downloadable worksheets, quizzes and a certificate of completion.
Why do you say this is for “high functioning” neurodivergent adults?
Fair question, and we put it in quotes for a reason. Functioning labels aren’t very helpful. They try to squash a whole person into one word, and they don’t tell you much about someone’s actual life.
Someone described as “high functioning” might look like they’re coping from the outside while struggling a lot behind the scenes, and their needs often get brushed off.
Someone described as “low functioning” often gets their strengths, preferences and right to make their own choices overlooked. Lots of neurodivergent people find the labels frustrating or hurtful, and we get why.
We’ve used the phrase because it’s still the term many people search for and recognise. What we actually mean is that this course is designed for neurodivergent adults who can:
- work through self-paced video and written content on their own
- reflect on their own experiences, needs and boundaries
- put ideas into practice in their own relationships and sex life without day-to-day support
Is this course right for autistic people with higher support needs?
Probably not, and that’s down to the course, not you. Autistic people with higher support needs have every right to pleasure, relationships, good sex education and a sex life that feels good to them. This course just wasn’t built with those needs in mind. For example, it relies a lot on spoken and written language, it moves at a set pace, and it assumes you’re working through it independently. That could make it overwhelming, inaccessible or simply not that useful.
You deserve something that actually fits you, like resources made specifically for people with higher support needs, or sessions with a sex educator or therapist who can adapt to how you communicate and learn. If you’re a parent, carer or support worker looking for resources for someone you support, get in touch and we’ll do our best to point you in a good direction.
How much does the course cost?
The course is a one-time payment of £69.99 with lifetime access included, so you can revisit the material anytime. There's no subscription or recurring fee. One therapy session is typically £60-90 so this is a more affordable option if therapy is not in the budget right now. That being said this is NOT therapy but its a great place to start.
Is the course self-paced?
Yes. Unmasked Intimacy is fully self-paced with no timeline and no pressure. You can work through the modules in whatever order and at whatever speed suits you, and return to any lesson whenever you like.
What topics does the course cover?
Across six modules you'll explore what neurodivergence really means and the impact of masking; how the ADHD dopamine system affects desire and libido; sensory processing differences in sex and intimacy; direct communication, consent, sex menus and dating (including dating apps); dysregulation, meltdowns, shutdowns and rejection sensitivity; and how to build a sex life and relationship structure that genuinely works for your brain.
Do I get a certificate?
Yes, a certificate of completion is included once you finish the course.
Can autistic and ADHD adults both benefit from this course?
Yes. The content is built for autistic, ADHD and AuDHD brains, and it specifically addresses the AuDHD tension between needing novelty and needing routine in relationships, alongside sensory needs, inconsistent desire and regulation
Is there anything included for partners of neurodivergent people?
Yes. There's a bonus module written directly for partners, allies and anyone who wants to understand a neurodivergent person better, covering common misunderstandings and how to respond to sensory and communication needs.
Is the content shame-free and inclusive?
Yes. The whole course is built around a shame-free, neurodivergent-affirming and LGBTQ+ inclusive approach, based on the idea that your brain isn't broken, it simply works differently.
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