You want to get someone a gift that means something. Not a candle. Not a generic bath set. Something that says I know you, I support you, and I think the world could do with a bit less shame in it.
That is where this guide comes in.
Whether you are shopping for a best friend who is deep in their healing era, a partner who sends you sex education links at 11pm, a therapist redecorating their office, or just yourself (genuinely the best reason to shop), there is something in here for you. Everything is from the Cliterally The Best sex positive shop, designed in-house and rooted in real sex education rather than shock value.
Here is the full breakdown.
Our Top Picks
‘at my clit’s end.’ Sex Positive Baseball Cap: £19.99 One of the bestsellers for a reason. A hat for when you are tired, done, and want people to know it in the most anatomically accurate way possible.
‘at my clit’s end.’ Sex Positive Baseball Cap: £19.99 One of the bestsellers for a reason. A hat for when you are tired, done, and want people to know it in the most anatomically accurate way possible.
The Clitoris Cushion (plushie): £19.99 An anatomically correct clitoris you can hug. That is the whole pitch and it works every time.
Under £5: Small Gifts, Big Statements
Great as add-ons, stocking fillers, or just a way of saying “I was thinking of you and also I think the patriarchy is exhausting.”
Sex Positive Sticker Pack: £12.99 If you cannot decide which individual sticker to go for, this solves the problem. A full pack of vinyl stickers covering a range of designs, all made to start conversations and stick around.
Vulva Besties Vinyl Sticker: £3 For the person whose laptop needs more anatomy on it. Vinyl, durable, and immediately a good conversation.
‘BMI is Bullshit’ Vinyl Sticker: £3 For the friend who is done with diet culture and ready to put that opinion literally anywhere.
‘Still Not Asking For It’ Vinyl Sticker: £3 A message that does not age. On a water bottle, a journal, a door. It says everything without saying anything extra.
‘Stroke Clits Not Egos’ Vinyl Sticker: £3 Self-explanatory. Honestly essential.
Cliterally The Best Logo Vinyl Sticker: £3 For the person who just gets it.
Under £15: Wall Art That Actually Does Something
Sex positive prints are one of those things people do not know they need until they see them. And then they very much need them.
‘Iceberg Clitoris’ Sex Positive Print: £8.99 Most of us were never taught that the vast majority of the clitoris is internal. This print changes that, and it looks good doing it. It turns up in bedrooms, therapy rooms, GP waiting areas, classrooms. Art that actually teaches something.
Penis & Clitoris Sex Positive Diagram Print: £8.99 Side by side anatomy, illustrated with care and a bit of humour. One of the most reviewed products in the shop. Counsellors love it. Educators love it. Curious humans love it.
‘In This House’ Print (digital download): £5.99 Delivered instantly, printed at home. An excellent last-minute gift that still feels considered. No waiting for shipping, no stress.
Around £28: T-Shirts That Say Something
Our Sex Positivi-tees are for people who wear their values out loud. Unisex fits, decent quality, and every single design has a point.
‘An O’ A Day’ Sex Positivi-tee: £28 Orgasms are good for you. This tee knows it. A brilliant gift for a partner, a close friend, or anyone who believes pleasure is not a luxury.
‘No More Victim Blaming’ Sex Positivi-tee: £28 A message that needs no explanation. For the friend who is done being polite about it.
‘Pay For Your Porn’ Sex Positivi-tee: £28 For the person who already lives by this and wants to wear it. Supports the conversation around ethical content creation and sex worker rights.
‘Homophobia is Manmade’ Baby Blue Sex Positivi-tee: £28 Soft colour, loud message. A go-to for queer friends, allies, and anyone who believes love should not be legislated.
A Practical Gift (That Will Actually Improve Someone’s Sex Life)
Aloe-lujah Water-Based Personal Lubricant Lube is a completely valid, genuinely thoughtful gift, and this one in particular is worth talking about. It is aloe-based, water-based, sensitive-skin friendly, and comes with a pump because tubes are annoying and we all know it. The reviews speak for themselves: people come back for it, people with sensitivities can finally use it, and the packaging is genuinely lovely. It is sex positive gifting in the most practical sense of the phrase.
When You Genuinely Cannot Decide: The Gift Card
The Sex Positive Gift Card Let someone you love choose their own adventure. Delivered digitally so there is no waiting, and it still says I thought about this because you clearly did if you are reading a whole gift guide. This is not a cop-out. It is respect for someone’s autonomy. Very sex positive of you, actually.
Who Are These Gifts For?
The honest answer is a wider range of people than you might expect. This guide is useful if you are shopping for:
- friends who are working through old shame and rebuilding their relationship with their body
- sex educators, therapists, and counsellors who want their spaces to match their values
- queer and LGBTQ+ loved ones who are tired of being an afterthought
- partners you want to give something that actually means something
- yourself, which is always a valid reason
Sex positive gifts are not a niche thing. They are just gifts that treat people like adults who deserve honest, shame-free information about their bodies and their pleasure. That is not a radical idea, it just sometimes feels like one.
