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Because chances are, someone reading it needs to hear it. The story you think is too weird, too small, or too embarrassing to tell is very often exactly the one that makes someone else feel less alone.
Sharing can be its own kind of processing too. Sometimes putting something into words, even anonymously, even just once, changes how you carry it.
What we're looking for
Honestly, almost anything. First times. Bad dates. The relationship that taught you everything. Discovering your own pleasure. Coming out. Heartbreak. Communication wins (and the conversations you wish you'd had sooner). Boundaries you learned to set the hard way. There's no topic too big or too small, as long as it's real.
Your privacy, your call
You don't have to use your name. Anonymous entries are always welcome, and you're in full control of how much you share and how identifiable you want to be. This is your story, told entirely on your terms.
All Sex Positive Stories
'Most Myself' by Danielle Bezalel (DB)
My ex boyfriend gave me Chlamydia. I was SO ashamed, I hid it from everyone. I went to the clinic to get tested for the first time ever, I was so nervous to get tested and then after that awful result i was terrified.
'It’s no more shameful than having a common cold' Dan
My ex boyfriend gave me Chlamydia. I was SO ashamed, I hid it from everyone. I went to the clinic to get tested for the first time ever, I was so nervous to get tested and then after that awful result i was terrified.
'My Coming Out Story' Lottie
At age 11, I remember watching the film Titanic, and realising that I thought Kate Winslet (the actress who played Rose) was quite attractive. Like, really attractive.
'To say that I experienced sexist and racist gaslighting from my doctors would be an understatement' Ratha
I started my period at the age of 10, which was both unexpected and traumatic, as I had literally no idea what was happening, and my mum was unable to hide her distress at me starting so early.
'My Lichen Sclerosis Story' Kiki, 22
Most people will have never heard of this and I had never heard of it either. But I had this for multiple years and it really really bothered me. I believe I got it when I was about 18 years old and I only got rid of it 3 years later. Not because it is so difficult to get rid of, but because I didn’t go to the doctor.
'We learn to live with herpes, but it does not define us' Ciara
Hi everyone, my name is Ciara, I am 22 and I have genital herpes, specially herpes simplex virus type 1. As many people know this virus is more commonly associated with oral herpes (cold sores).
'My Bartholin Cyst Story' Joy
They informed me that it was in fact a Bartholins Cyst and had gotten so bad because it was left untreated and agitated for weeks!
'My Vulvodynia Story' Lucianna, 21
Hiya, I’m Lucianna, I’m 21 and have struggled with Vulvodynia for as long as I can remember, I properly realised there was something wrong at the start of puberty roughly 12/13.
'The idea I could be gay was so alien to me' Kira, 18
I think discovering your sexuality isn’t restricted to realising you are not cis/straight but also is about realising what turns you on, what you are comfortable with, how to please yourself.
'Am I the only one out there who masturbates with my legs crossed?' Julia, Poland
Am I the only one out there who masturbates with my legs crossed instead of spread?” has been the question I’ve been asking myself for years.
'My First Sex Party' Emilie, London
I’ve written all about my first big sexual adventure in poetic form. For some reason I find it easier to express myself in rhyming couplets 😂. Shout-out to anyone else who can related to being an awkward sexual being.
"I had my first smear test, then received a letter saying that I had HPV" Mel
For people with vulvas, turning twenty five means that you’ll be invited to have your first smear test (unless you’ve been pregnant or had previous complications, then it would be earlier than this). Despite how scary it can be, I can not stress enough how important it is that you go.
'Some of You Guys Suck at Being Dominant' Quinn Gray
Domination in bed is something frequently done with poor technique. Spanking, choking, and spitting seem like standard aspects of sex nowadays; I can’t remember the last time I had sex and it wasn’t automatically assumed that being dominated is something I’d be into.
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