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Unmasked Intimacy: Sex, Desire & Communication for Neurodivergent Adults

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Evidence-based sex education course that truly understands neurodivergent people. Explore desire, sensory sex, communication, and identity in this shame-free course for autistic and ADHD adults and their allies. Created by an AuDHD psychosexual and relationship therapist, it’s self-paced and designed to work with your brain, not against it.

Audio + written content for every lesson

Lifetime access, revisit anytime

Certificate upon completion

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Overview

Most sex education was not built for neurodivergent people. This course is. Shame-free, evidence-informed psychoeducation covering what actually happens when autism, ADHD and AuDHD meet sex, desire and relationships. Whether you have never dated or have years of experience, this is for you.

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Unmasked Intimacy: Sex, Desire & Communication for Neurodivergent Adults

£69.99

What you will learn

Finally, sex ed that gets your brain

Evidence-informed content built specifically for how neurodivergent brains experience intimacy, dating, and relationships, at any level of experience.

Map your personal sensory profile for intimate situations and communicate it without shame
Understand how your ADHD dopamine system affects desire and why your libido is inconsistent
Understand how your ADHD dopamine system affects desire and why your libido is inconsistent
Use practical tools including sex menus, asynchronous communication and agreed in-the-moment signals
Navigate dating apps and dating itself as a neurodivergent person, including if you are starting from zero experience
Recognise your regulation warning signs and protect your nervous system in intimate contexts

Knowledge check quizzes every module
6 downloadable worksheets
Self-paced - no timeline, no pressure

Course content

7 modules. 21 lessons. Your pace.

Every module has 3 lessons, each with full written content and a matching audio recording, plus a worksheet and quiz at the end. No timeline, no pressure.

Your Brain, Not Your Fault

What neurodivergence actually means · Why so many people are diagnosed late · Masking and what it costs in intimate life

Desire, Dopamine and Your Brain

The ADHD brain and dopamine · Inconsistent desire, hyperfocus and RSD · The AuDHD tension: novelty vs predictability

Sensory Sex

What sensory processing differences mean · How they show up in sex and intimacy · Building your sensory profile

Communication, Consent and Connection

Direct communication and consent · Sex menus and asynchronous communication · Navigating dating apps and dating

Regulation, Safety and When Things Go Wrong

Dysregulation, meltdowns and shutdowns · RSD and post-intimate vulnerability · Building nervous system safety

Building a Sex Life That Actually Works for You

Self-knowledge as the foundation · Identity, queerness and neurodivergence · Structures, compatibility and solo sex

For Partners, Allies and People Who Want to Understand

A lesson for those who have taken this course to support the Neurospicy person in their life or therapists with ND clients

Who this course is for

3 audiences, 1 course

Whether you are neurodivergent, love someone who is, or work with neurodivergent clients, there is a place for you here.

Neurodivergent Adults

Autistic, ADHD and AuDHD adults who want to understand how their brain affects desire, sensory intimacy, communication and identity. This includes people who have never dated or had sex. Asexual and aromantic people are explicitly welcome here too.

Partners and Allies

The bonus module is written directly for you. The most common misunderstandings, how to hear sensory needs without taking them personally, and what good allyship in intimate relationships actually looks like.

Therapists and Practitioners

A deeper understanding of how neurodivergence intersects with intimacy, desire and identity. Covers autism, ADHD and AuDHD as distinct experiences with their own clinical nuances.

Your Unmasked Intimacy Questions, Answered.

if your question isn't answered here, please don't hesitate to reach out to Evie.

What is the Unmasked Intimacy course?

Unmasked Intimacy is a self-paced online sex education course created specifically for neurodivergent adults. It covers desire, sensory intimacy, communication, consent, dating and self-regulation through a shame-free, evidence-informed lens. The course includes 7 core modules, 21 lessons, downloadable worksheets, quizzes and a certificate of completion.

Who is this neurodivergent sex education course for?

The course is designed for three audiences: autistic, ADHD and AuDHD adults who want to understand how their brain shapes intimacy and desire; partners and allies who want to understand and support a neurodivergent loved one (there's a dedicated bonus module written for them); and therapists and practitioners who want a deeper understanding of how neurodivergence intersects with sex, desire and identity. It's also LGBTQ+ inclusive.

How much does the course cost?

The course is a one-time payment of £69.99 with lifetime access included, so you can revisit the material anytime. There's no subscription or recurring fee. One therapy session is typically £60-90 so this is a more affordable option if therapy is not in the budget right now. That being said this is NOT therapy but its a great place to start.

Is the course self-paced?

Yes. Unmasked Intimacy is fully self-paced with no timeline and no pressure. You can work through the modules in whatever order and at whatever speed suits you, and return to any lesson whenever you like.

What topics does the course cover?

Across six modules you'll explore what neurodivergence really means and the impact of masking; how the ADHD dopamine system affects desire and libido; sensory processing differences in sex and intimacy; direct communication, consent, sex menus and dating (including dating apps); dysregulation, meltdowns, shutdowns and rejection sensitivity; and how to build a sex life and relationship structure that genuinely works for your brain.