Lisa Opel is a celebrated author, speaker, pleasure advocate and, as Mrs-Opel, a trusted confidante known for blending wit, light-hearted honesty and shame-free spice with topics most people whisper about.

Her erotic short story collection GIVE IT TO ME! (available in print, ebook and audio read by Lisa herself) brings sharp realism to desire, while her practical workbook SEX SEX SEX (DE/ENG) helps readers explore intimacy, confidence and communication without judgement. In her poetry collection SAVED IN NOTES, she traces the emotional spectrum from grief to horny, revealing how words do not just describe our experiences but shape them.

She is the host of the bilingual podcast Deep & Dirty, where she speaks with therapists, coaches, researchers and cultural thinkers about the many layers of sexuality, and a TEDx speaker. She moves comfortably between playful and profound, from fantasies, kink and consent to power dynamics, and even testing a sex doll in a bold inquiry into whether technology could soften a modern loneliness epidemic. Together with JOYclub, she created a free German-language online course on long-term relationships, combining humor, real-life stories and grounded tools to keep love, lust and connection alive.

She creates and educates around sexuality, pleasure, sensuality and the language we use to talk about them. Her work spans long-term relationships, communication, consent, kink, non-monogamy, LGBTQ+ experiences, fantasy, nervous system regulation and sexual autonomy. She explores how culture shapes our erotic scripts and how we can rewrite them in ways that feel authentic, embodied and free of shame.

Through live readings, workshops and collaborations with Skirt Club, JOYclub (UK/DE) and feel, Lisa champions intelligent and inclusive conversations about sexuality that are witty, human and refreshingly judgement-free. At the core of her work is one intention: helping people find better words for desire and the confidence to use them.